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THE STONEHAVEN ASSISTED LIVING AND MEMORY CARE
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The Stonehaven Assisted Living And Memory Care

10802 EAST 81ST STREET, TULSA, OK 74133

Monthly Cost

Starting at $4,730/mo

Licensed Beds

142

County

TULSA

Care Type

Assisted Living & Memory Care

Starting price — actual cost depends on care level and room type. Call Paul for a personalized quote at no cost to your family.

What it’s like

The Stonehaven is a Legend Senior Living assisted living and memory care community in south Tulsa, near TCC's South Campus with easy Highway 169 access and cultural neighbors such as the Philbrook Museum and Gathering Place. The community describes offering more than care, aiming for "a rhythm of life that feels reassuring and meaningful," set in light and airy spaces anchored by a lively courtyard that brings people together, with caring associates available around the clock.

Memory care is built around familiar routines and trusted therapies, while everyday life is supported by weekly housekeeping, full laundry service, wellness and life-enrichment programs, and companion and dining services. Residents enjoy a rich set of shared spaces including a bistro cafe, country kitchen, dining room, pub, fitness center, movie theater, library, spa, salon, and patio.

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Community Care and Amenities

Care levels, room types and features at The Stonehaven Assisted Living And Memory Care. Not sure which of these your loved one actually needs? That’s where I can help — most families are guessing at this part, and guessing wrong is expensive.

  • Assisted Living
  • Memory Care
  • Assisted living apartments
  • Memory care apartments
  • Restaurant-Style Dining
  • Chef-Prepared Meals
  • Social Activities
  • Housekeeping & Laundry
  • Fitness & Wellness
  • Beauty Salon
  • Outdoor Courtyard
  • Transportation
  • 24-Hour Staff
  • Respite / Short-Term Stays
  • Faith-Based
  • Incontinence Care
  • Veterans / VA Benefits
  • Assisted living personal care
  • Memory care (familiar routines and therapies)
  • 24/7 caring associates
  • Weekly housekeeping
  • Laundry service (wash, fold, hang)
  • Dining services
  • Bistro cafe and country kitchen
  • Pub and private dining
  • Hair salon and spa
  • Fitness center
  • Movie theater
  • Library
  • Activity room
  • Wellness and life-enrichment programs
  • Companion services
  • Post office
  • Patio and courtyard
  • Deficiency-free survey status noted
  • Lively central courtyard
  • On-site movie theater, pub, and spa
  • Near Philbrook Museum and the Gathering Place

State Inspection Record

Oklahoma inspects every assisted living and memory care community on a regular schedule, plus any time a complaint comes in. Inspectors are state employees, not part of this site — what follows is what they found, in their own words.

Built by Paul Swales, a senior placement advisor, from Oklahoma State Department of Health inspection records — not from reviews. Assisted living and memory care have no federal star rating.

Full inspection history

Every inspection Oklahoma has on record for this community. The rating is based on the last 2 years, so a community is not scored on something it corrected long ago — but the older record is here to read either way.

Counts toward the rating

  • 2026-07-30Routine inspection

    Findings cited, none rising to harm

    • The community failed to ensure annual fire (a) Each assisted living center shall comply with pease ies completed.
    • The community failed to ensure expired foods in the kitchen were disposed of for 1 of 3 kitchen observations.
    • The community failed to ensure cooked food items were disposed of within 24 hours for 1 of 2 refrigerators sampled for cooked food items stored.
    • The community failed to ensure an annual fire inspection was completed.
  • 2025-02-27Complaint investigation

    No deficiencies were cited

Earlier inspections on record (3) — not counted toward the rating
  • 2023-09-14Complaint investigationhistory

    No deficiencies were cited

  • 2023-06-06Routine inspectionhistory

    Findings cited, none rising to harm

    • The community failed to prepare food in accordance with Chapter 257 by ensuring the kitchen staff wore hair restraints while working to effectively keep their hair from contacting exposed food.
  • 2021-10-11Complaint investigationhistory

    Findings cited, none rising to harm

    • The community failed to assess and complete a significant change assessment for one (#4) of three sampled residents reviewed for completed assessments.
    • The community failed to provide RN supervision to ensure physician orders were completed, and the physician was notified for; a.
    • The community failed to provide sufficient staffing to administer medications at the time ordered by the physcian for three (#2, #3 and #5) of three sampled residents reviewed for medication administration.
    • The community failed to ensure staff a.

These are the state’s own inspection reports, which anyone can request from the Oklahoma State Department of Health. We read them; we don’t write them.

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My help finding the right community costs your family nothing.

You never pay me — the community pays my fee, and only if someone I introduce moves in. And one person calls you back: me, not a call center.

  • The price above is not the price you’ll pay. Care-level charges, community fees, medication management and second-person fees all stack on top of that base rate. I’ll walk you through what this community really charges for someone in your loved one’s situation — and push to get the move-in fee and deposit reduced.
  • Whether they have a room, and would take your loved one. I’ll find out what’s actually open right now and whether they’d genuinely accept this level of care, before you spend a morning touring.
  • How it compares to the others nearby. I hold the same state record for every community in the metro. Their sales office will never tell you the place four miles away has a cleaner history.
Call Paul · (405) 655-5309
Call me before you contact a single community.One conversation usually saves a family weeks, and costs you nothing — here’s why, and how I get paid.
Paul Swales, Senior Placement Advisor at Oklahoma Senior Placement

I’m Paul Swales, and this is what I do all day. A senior placement advisor is the person who finds the right community for your family and does the hard part for you. I’ve read the state health department’s inspection record on every community in this metro. I know which ones will genuinely take your loved one’s level of care, and I make the calls — so you’re not doing this alone at eleven at night on your phone.

It works like a buyer’s agent in real estate. Your family never pays me. The community pays my fee, and only if someone I introduce actually moves in. There’s no cost to your family and no obligation to keep using me.

The one catch is the order. They only pay my fee if I introduce you before you contact them yourself. Call them first and you’re a walk-in — I can’t step in as your advocate after that. It costs your family nothing either way. It only decides whether you have someone on your side.

Your next step

Oklahoma Senior Placement can get you current availability, the real monthly price, and a tour at The Stonehaven Assisted Living And Memory Care — at no cost to your family.

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  • Serving the Oklahoma City and Tulsa metros
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Location

10802 EAST 81ST STREET, TULSA, OK 74133